Josie’s Birth at the Cabin

Here is Josie's birth story as I remember it. My friend Joy is 24 weeks and also planning to have a water birth. She drove up for the birth and posted on her blog about it, it was so interesting to read her version I decided to include her account as well… Sunday September 14th, my due date, I was starting to think I would never go into labor. With Ava I felt like I was going into labor every day for 2 weeks. I expected the same thing to happen this time but I would pretty much have one or two good contractions a day. That evening I started having some pretty intense contractions, much more painful than any up to that point. So I called my mom and told her if I woke up with them, we would be heading towards the cabin which is conveniently within 5 walking minutes from my parents home.

We went to bed and about 2:00am I was awoken by a contraction. I got up, went to the bathroom, then tried to go back to sleep. About 3:00 I woke up with another really strong contraction and then another not long after. I got up and began timing them. At that point they were 5-8 minutes apart. I wanted to let Tim sleep as long as possible, so I went about getting things ready to go. I realized my inhaler was almost empty so I did a quick run across town to the 24 hour Walgreens. Moaning and screaming every 5 minutes. I'm sure I was quite a site moaning like a Banchee at the red light. Not to mention the pharmacist wanted to call an ambulance for me and then thought I was absolutely certifiable when I told her I wasn't going to the hospital anyways.

I got back to the house and about 4:00 I had a contraction that I couln’t keep quiet through. That's when Tim got up. We finished packing and when Ava woke up we left for the cabin, stopping for some MacDonalds on the way. We arrived at my parents about 9:00am, at that point contractions were coming 4-6 minutes apart. My mom came with us down to the cabin. She was supposed to be helping to watch Ava but really she watched Tim watch Ava. Tim brought everything in and started organizing and setting things up while I made brownies and miso soup in-between contractions.

About 1:30pm my contractions were getting very strong, we couldn’t set the pool up with Ava there, so my mom took her over to their house to wait for her little sister to arrive. After they left I decided I wanted to get into the pool, not only for pain relief but I felt I needed a bit of a break and some rest before the last stretch. My Dr. showed up a little later around 2:30, when he checked me I was 4cm and 50% effaced. He encouraged me to get out of the pool and move around, which I did.

That’s when things started to progress or so I thought. Two hours later after walking to my parents and back and rolling on my ball I was just feeling more tired and when David checked again I had not progressed at all. My Dr. went to check on another patient who had given birth at 8:00 that morning and said he would be back in a couple of hours. So it was just Tim and I left there. I was so tired and I needed some rest so I got back into the pool to ride out the contractions then I would try to sleep in between them.

My friend showed up after about an hour, and then my Dr. arrived back at the cabin. The rest and relaxation had helped, I had progressed to 6cm & 80% effacement. Here is my friends account of what happened from there…

“So I was able to make it to my friends, home-water birth monday night. She started having steady contractions late Sunday night/early Monday morning so they packed everything up and headed to the cabin where they would be having the baby. Before the contractions really started she was only 2 cm dilated and she knew she wasn’t really progressing quickly enough for me to rush up there. After work I headed up to the cabin and when I got there around 7: 40ish, the last time the doctor had checked her, 5:40ish she was 4 cm with 50% effacement. The doctor arrived back at the cabin shortly after me and checked her again – 6.5 cm with 80% effacement! Wonderful progress. She was doing great riding out the contracts in her birthing pool, with candles and soft music playing. I kind of felt like a bump on a log as we quietly waited for each contraction to come and go. She sat in her pool, looked at her tummy and said, “Ok this is how this is going to happen; I am going to dilate 1cm every 30 minutes until I get to 10! Then you’re coming out Josie!!” We all chuckled and hoped for quick dilation since she was beginning to have terrible back pain from transition. She said she could feel Josie’s head on her butt and that was putting tons of pressure on her tail bone. Things seemed to really kick in around 8:30 when the doctor checked her and confirmed she had progressed to a ’stretchy’ 8 cm with full effacement. She was dilating at the rate she wanted, but she was beginning to have the urge to push. Her doctor checked her again and it was a little too early to push. By 9:15 she was 10 cm, but her membranes hadn’t ruptured yet, after the doctor ruptured her membranes Josie was out at 9:45 p.m. It was the most intense, yet amazing experience I’ve ever witnessed. I am so thankful that she let me be a part of it all. Josie even breastfed like a champ and tipped the scales at 7 lbs. 8 oz. She appeared smaller than her big sister, but actually weighed more than Ava did at birth. I’m looking forward to my own water birth and hoping that my friend will be operating the camera at mine like I was at hers.”

She left out just a few things though…After Ava went to sleep my mom came down to be there for the birth. She wouldn’t stop talking during the contractions even though I asked her nicely three different times not to. Finally during one rather painful contraction I yelled at her to “SHUTUP”. I feel horrible for that, but I have decided at our next birth it will be known there is no talking allowed during contractions! Tim caught little Josie but then almost let go of her because the vernix really freaked him out. Ava came out perfectly clean and therefor he was not prepared what so ever to deal with anything icky. My favorite part is that I cut the chord this time.

Little Josiphine Paige Curry was born at 9:45pm 9/15/08 weighing 7 pounds 8 ounces and 21 inches long. She was checked and weighed and loved on then everyone was gone from the cabin by 10:45/11. Tim was able to get Ava to sleep rather quickly and it was just the three of us left to get to know eachother. We stayed up until about 1:00am just looking at her then we all had an amazing sleep. It was exactly the birth experience we had wanted and hoped for.

35 Weeks ~ Josie’s Shower

My dear friend Sarah threw me a shower yesterday, we only invited my 5 closest friends and my Mom. By chance all of my friends had major things going on, one was in another state, one was in the middle of moving, my mom had to go the hospital for a blood clot in her foot yesterday morning, and one is taking care of her MIL who had surgery on Friday.So I had one friend show up and my friend who threw it. Up until I got there I was pretty depressed about the whole situation, but my two friends made it a wonderfully memorable afternoon.
1st we made matching shirts for Ava and Josie while sipping on a tastey iced-tea sweetened with splenda just for me, then we ate some wonderful fruit salad and cheese and crackers. Then I opened some presents and I'll tell you those two girls went all out. I got a My Brest Friend pillow, which I wanted so badly. Some extra large breast sheilds, LOL. 3 of the cutest outfits and 2 of the softest prettiest blankets. Then we had some chocolate peanut butter cheesecake, mmmmmmmm, so good!

This is the table, it was so pretty. The bottles have bath salts in them, which I can't wait to use

Joy getting ready to make puffy paint shirts

Ava and Noah, wearing Noah's boots

The shirts Joy made

The shirt i made for Ava

The shirt that I made for Josie

The cute shirts Sarah made for Josie and Ava

33 Weeks all is very well :)

We just got back from our 33 week appt. and everything is looking really good. I have been having rather painful cramps, but I think it is just because the little one likes to stretch out in there sideways. We got an ultrasound just to see how the little one was situated and I was right completely transverse. Butt on the right and head on the left, while he was doing the ultrasound he somewhat caoxed her head down into a more favorable position, however I htink she went right back as soon as we left because I feel her butt stretching out my right side again. Little Booger!
We have FINALLY chosen a first name and we have been calling her by it for some time now so I feel a little better about sharing it. This little one will be called Josie, short for Josiphine. It's the only one that has truly fit, and we are very happy with it.

27Weeks ~ Back to square one on Baby’s name

June 19, 2008
Well the social security's list of names for 2007 came out not too long ago and Isabella was 2 on the list. We had said we definitely didn't want a really common name so Isabella is out, sadly. We really wanted to use the name Ann after my mom and Tim became partial to the name Ryan. So we have combined the names and are definitely using Ryann. However I would love some oppinions in our name poll if anyone is interested, just click on the link below…http://www.pollpub.com/help-us-pick-our-new-baby-girls-name.aspx

25 weeks ~ An unplanned trip to Labor and Delivery

I have been terrible about updating. Time just seems to pass me by some days. I guess it's because I am busy with a 16 month old. This is definitely the most wonderfully tiring job I have ever had.
Ava got her first stomach virus last week and I hope her last. Poor thing. She woke up last Sunday night throwing up and it continued for about 4 days. She finally kept everything she consumed down Saturday. Then I got it and man was it wicked.
Saturday night I started feeling nauseaus and once it started it didn't seem like it was going to stop. I knew I was getting dehydrated by 3:00am Sunday morning because I started having contractions. So we decided I should go to the hospital. Tim stayed home so we wouldn't have to wake up Ava, but when I got to Labor and Delivery they wouldn't give me anything, not even fluids, because I was alone. So I called my dear friend Tia, who was just great. She took better care of me than the nurses for the most part. After a ton of fluid and anti-nausea medicine I was sent home. I didn't get sick again but I felt like I had been hit by a car and the major dehydration brought on a major headache that I am still somewhat fighting.
Yesterday we had our regular prenatal appt. We were'nt expecting to get an U/S but Dr. Hayes offered so ofcourse we took him up on it. Especially with everything my body and baby had been through this past weekend. We got to see that everything was OK and that she is still quite a she. She is breech right now but it is still early so nothing to worry about yet. The Placenta is far out of the way and she was moving like crazy. Overall it was a wonderful appt.
Since we got confirmation that we are indeed still having a girl we have finally picked out a name...
I was not expecting to have another shower with this one, mostly because it is such an iffy subject, etiquette wise. However my dear friend Sarah has offered to throw one for me at her house. I can't tell you how touched I was. Not to mention I would hate for Isabella to think we celebrated her coming any less than we did Ava's. After all we have been through, I feel like all of our children are amazing blessings and it just feels right to celebrate their existance.
Well gotta go do mommy stuff, I will try to be better about updates.

17 Weeks ~ Little One Might Be a..........................

We don’t know for sure because we could'nt get the best look. From what we did see the Doctor said it looked very "vaginaish". So we won’t need any clothes, and Ava’s room can remain purple for now.
We didn’t have an appointment scheduled until next Monday but, for some reason about a week ago, I started worrying something was wrong. No real reason other than I hadn’t felt much movement lately. Which, I know, at this point means nothing, but the pregnancy OCD got to me. I have a really great Dr. so I decided to take advantage of that and get some peace of mind, so off we went.
I was so worried I would go in there and find something terrible had happened to our little one. Thank god as far as we could see everything seemed fine. There was a wonderful little heartbeat, 2 hands and 10 fingers, proportionate stomache to head, maybe just a little small. Other than that pretty much perfect

4 months/16 weeks

So far so good, just growing. I have decided to pick up my exercise again. It’s not that I haven’t been exercising but I definitely slacked off in the 1st Trimester, I just felt so crummy I couldn’t get motivated to get out everyday. So far this week I have made sure to get out everyday and I am feeling so much better. I was so out of shape when Ava arrived and I am determined not to let that happen again.
We find out what our little one is on April 14th and I could just about die, I am so excited. I don’t have a feeling either way but I have had a couple of people look at my belly and say I was carrying low so "a boy".

Things are looking good :) at almost 15 weeks

Our appointment went very well Monday. We didn’t get to find out the sex, but the Placenta has completely moved away from the Cervix. I really want to have a natural home birth again so barring any other unforseen complications(fingers crossed), we will be getting our cabin birth.
We go back in February at 18 weeks and we will most likely get to find out what the little one is.
Ava is growing so much, every day I fall more in love with her, and in turn I can’t wait to fall in love with this one the same way. She is still too young to understand the baby thing, but we still tell her there is a baby brother or sister in mommys belly. I think she is more entertained by the fact that my belly jiggles, LOL.

13 weeks ~ Growing Bellies ~ Bye-Bye Balance

13 weeks ~ here’s the progression so far:

13 weeks, Yeah! Almost out of the 1st trimester. We go back to Dr. Hayes on Monday, I can’t wait, I really start to feel a little crazy the week before my appt’s. I’m just so afraid something will happen to this little one. Cravings this week include, cocktail onions, hummus and mild pepperoncini peppers. I have felt a fish flopping a few times and I assume it’s Jr. in there.
I also had my first "toe injury" I tripped going over the child gate last night and broke my poor little "little" toe. It’s all fun from here on out.

12 weeks:)

12 weeks, I can tell I am going to "pop" sooner this time, I feel huge already. On the up side, the weather is getting beautiful and the morning sickness is somewhat lightened up. So ava and I have been able to get out and do a little more. Lately we have been hitting Furman Lake and the Reedy River Falls.

11 weeks and I'm craving carbs, which I really am not supposed to have. So that stinks! Why can't I crave meats and cheese? Instead the thought of meat or cheese right now just makes me sick. I have been much more sick this pregnancy than I was with Ava, but sporadically. I had one really bad week where I was sick 24 hours a day, but I think we are past that and through the worst now, I hope so anyway.

10 weeks ~ Good news and not so good news

I think I will feel a little bit more comfortable with this pregnancy after today...sort of. We went to our 10 week checkup and my Dr. did a 2nd ultrasound since things were a little weird last time. We found our bean and a heartbeat right away this time, the little one was measuring 9weeks 6days so not too far off. Here is our u/s pic, if you know what your looking at, you can see a little monkey face there on the right side

The good news is, I will get an u/s at almost every appointment from now on, the bad news is it's because we have complete Placenta Previa. If you don't know exactly what that means, the placenta is fully covering the Cervix, if I were to go into labor and birth the placenta before the baby our little one would have no chance, so in that case a C-section is required. With partial Placenta previa, there is a very good chance as the Uterus grows it would move up and away from the cervix, but with complete Placenta previa the chances are lower. So for right now we are hoping and praying.

What a hangover!

Uggh, soooooooooooooo Sick!!!!! This seriously reminds me of my party years, thank God I don't drink any more, puking just can't be good for you.
I do have to chuckle a little through my queasiness, though. This morning at 1:15am I woke up dreaming I was watching a "Biggest Loser" competition that involved copious amounts of disgusting food. I was actually getting sick in the dream before I woke up to feeling extremely sick. Luckily I've ridden this bull before and from 6 weeks I've had a chuck basin next to the bed which I proceeded to use. Tim wakes up to this and without flinching gets up walks out of the room and goes to the bathoom, never saying a word. Uh, hello, where's my knight in shining armor? He then went right back to bed.
I thought some saltines would help so I ate a couple and laid back down, but the hangover feeling worsened and so here I am sitting in front of the computer at 2:30am trying not to get sick. I have a feeling when I read this in the morning it's going to sound like ramblings but I figured I would record this truly amazing part of pregnancy.

8 weeks, sick as a dog, and I couldn’t be happier

We made it to 8 weeks and... so far, so good. All of the expected symptoms are here, nausea being the newest and most severe so far. I have also thrown my neck out with the puking which is definitely no fun, however, I know it is all well worth it and I wouldn't trade it for the world. I'm still craving Chick-Filet's sugar-free lemonade, Yummmm. My tummy feels like it's stretching already. I can't wait until out next appointment so I can hear that precious heartbeat. We go back to Dr. Hayes Feb 18th at 10 weeks. I don't know if we will get another ultrasound at that time or not, ofcourse I hope we do, just to ease my mind a little. Until next time..

7 weeks update and belly shot

7 weeks and the nausea is starting. Small waves every so often, but nothing major. My pants are getting tighter and my stomache is starting to grow, I think... either that or I am just bloated. This week I am craving lemonade, specifically Chick-Filet's sugar-free lemonade. I can't get enough of it.

6 weeks 1 day ~ The 1st prenatal appointment

"I don't see a 6 week pregnancy here, that's for sure." That was what the Doctor finally said after looking around for what seemed like forever. Honestly, I refused to believe it and I told him to keep looking, when all of a sudden we saw a fluttering, it was hard to see the little one because of how low implantation occured. It was so hard to see that he had to check my pulse to make sure the fluttering wasn't a vein of mine, but it wasn't, it was our little bean's heartbeat!

5 weeks tomorrow

We have officially made it farther than last time. Not much to report, other than really dark lines, yipee. We have the 1st ultrasound scheduled for Mon. Jan. 21st to check for a heartbeat. I can hardly wait. Ava will be one on Jan. 24th and I will be 30 on the 26th so alot to look forward to in the next couple of weeks.

Keep us in your prayers for the next nine months!

Here we go again, I won't say the words! I will stay calm, not stress and be as healthy as possible. I will not ask why if it is not to be. I will rejoice if we are blessed again. I will ask for help when I need it. This one will stick, This one will stick, This one will stick.